Have you ever thought about how many inspirations we may reject in one day because we don’t believe they were from God. The next question is, are we really listening to the Lord for His council, advice or daily inspirations? If you have never considered that, I invite you to retune your brain to a station that tunes into the Lord. In other words, make room for some quiet time and really try to hear what the Lord is speaking to you. You will be surprised! It took me a while to learn how to do this. The world teaches, especially men, to be fixers and providers. If you’re married, how many times has your wife told you something and you responded by telling her how to fix it? And she responds with: “I don’t want you to fix it, I just want you to listen!” I must confess I have been there. I’m trying to get better.
Zechariah heard the angel’s message but he didn’t believe it. It was a big moment in salvation history. How can you tell? By the fact that Zechariah became mute and could no longer speak. Why? Because he didn’t believe the message that his wife would bear a son. Some say that Elizabeth was around 80 years old. So, how could that be possible? Humanly, it is not possible. But remember that God can do anything. There are several instances in Scripture where an elderly woman conceived and bore a child. Eventually, Zechariah caught on. We know this, because family members we’re trying to name him Zechariah or some other family member’s name. He asked for a tablet and wrote: “His name is John.”
Zechariah paid the price for not believing God’s message. I shudder to think how many times I have not responded to God’s message. He often tells us what we should do in our life. Very often we blow it off. Why? Because we are not thinking supernaturally. We are thinking humanly, which is not always the best. I used to give talks to men’s groups and I asked this question several times: How many believe that God would speak to you through your wife? A hush would come over the group. Some were squirming in their chairs. They had never thought of such a thing. Hopefully, they do now.
Remember, God can do anything. Sometimes it is something that you didn’t ask for. The Lord always has a reason for everything that happens. Our job is to find out what that reason is. There is also an easier way to find out. Set out on a journey to get closer to God. Guess what happens then? His voice gets a little louder. Then we can be proactive and do what He asks of us. Amen?
Serving with joy!
¿Alguna vez has pensado en cuántas inspiraciones podemos rechazar en un día porque no creemos que sean de Dios? La siguiente pregunta es: ¿realmente estamos escuchando al Señor en busca de Su guía, consejo o inspiración diaria? Si nunca lo has considerado, te invito a que resintonices tu cerebro en una estación que sintonice con el Señor. En otras palabras, busca un tiempo de tranquilidad y trata de escuchar realmente lo que el Señor te está diciendo. ¡Te vas a sorprender! Me demoré un tiempo para aprender a hacer esto. El mundo enseña, especialmente a los hombres, a dar soluciones y proveer. Si estás casado, ¿cuántas veces tu esposa te ha dicho algo y le has respondido diciéndole cómo solucionarlo? Y ella responde: “No quiero que lo arregles, ¡solo quiero que escuches!” Confieso que he estado allí. Estoy intentando ser mejor.
Zacarías escuchó el mensaje del ángel, pero no lo creyó. Fue un gran momento en la historia de la salvación. ¿Cómo sabemos? Por el hecho de que Zacarías se quedó mudo y ya no podía hablar. ¿Por qué? Porque no creyó el mensaje de que su esposa tendría un hijo. Algunos dicen que Isabel tenía alrededor de 80 años. Entonces, ¿cómo podría ser posible eso? Humanamente, no es posible. Pero recuerda que Dios puede hacer cualquier cosa. Hay varios casos en las Escrituras en los que una mujer mayor concibió y dio a luz un hijo. Al final, Zacarías aprendió la lección. Lo sabemos, porque los miembros de la familia estaban tratando de llamarlo Zacarías o el nombre de algún otro miembro de la familia, pero pidió una tablilla y escribió: “Su nombre es Juan.”
Zacarías pagó el precio por no creer el mensaje de Dios. Me estremezco al pensar en cuántas veces no he respondido al mensaje de Dios. Con frecuencia nos dice lo que debemos hacer al transcurso de la vida. Y con frecuencia lo ignoramos. ¿Por qué? Porque no estamos pensando sobrenaturalmente. Estamos pensando humanamente, lo cual no siempre es lo mejor. Antes daba charlas a grupos de hombres y varias veces les preguntaba: ¿Cuántos creen que Dios les podría hablar a través de su esposa? Y el grupo se quedaba callado. Algunos se movían en sus sillas. Nunca habían pensado en algo así. Ojalá que ahora sí lo piensen.
Recuerda que Dios puede hacer cualquier cosa. A veces es algo que no pedimos. El Señor siempre tiene una razón para todo lo que sucede. Nuestra responsabilidad es descubrir cuál es esa razón. También hay una manera más fácil de averiguarlo. Emprende un camino para acercarte a Dios. ¿Adivina qué va a suceder? Su voz se va a hacer un poco más fuerte. Entonces podemos ser proactivos y hacer lo que Él nos pide. ¿Amén?
¡Sirviendo con alegría!
Deacon Dan Schneider is a retired general manager of industrial distributors. He and his wife Vicki have been married for over 50 years. They are the parents of eight children and thirty-one grandchildren. He has a degree in Family Life Education from Spring Arbor University. He was ordained a Permanent Deacon in 2002. He has a passion for working with engaged and married couples and his main ministry has been preparing couples for marriage.
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