Today’s Gospel includes a passage from Matthew that states “John’s disciples came to him and said, ‘Why is it that we and the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not?’ Jesus replied, ‘Surely the bridegroom’s attendants cannot mourn as long as the bridegroom is still with them? But the time will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast.’”
This verse shines light on a few aspects of life that present daily obstacles. The first is our need to compare ourselves to others. In today’s world, we can get caught up in comparing our lives to others and changing who we are to keep up with someone else. Whether it be trying to buy the next best thing or questioning our core Christian values because of what is going on in the world around us. Jesus helps us address this obstacle by telling us that if we stop comparing ourselves to others and mirror our lives after him and only him we will be fulfilling our duty as a disciple of the Lord.
The second obstacle that Jesus helps us address is that there will be times when your opinions and views may conflict with someone you greatly respect and it does not mean that you have to change your relationship with that person. Jesus had the highest respect for John the Baptist. Jesus was baptized by John and followed him for a time until he was put in prison. During John’s imprisonment Jesus made it known that even though he loved and respected John, the reason he was sent here by God was for a higher purpose. Jesus then decided to start his own ministry to fulfill that purpose. We can use the relationship between John the Baptist and Jesus as an example of when we are struggling to have conflictive conversations with a loved one. Just remember the respect and understanding they had for each other and try to do the same.
May we use these words from Matthew to become modern day disciples who spread God’s word through mutual love and respect.
El Evangelio de hoy incluye un pasaje de Mateo que dice: “En aquel tiempo, los discípulos de Juan fueron a ver a Jesús y le preguntaron: ‘¿Por qué tus discípulos no ayunan, mientras nosotros y los fariseos sí ayunamos?’ Jesús les respondió: ‘¿Cómo pueden llevar luto los amigos del esposo, mientras él está con ellos? Pero ya vendrán días en que les quitarán al esposo, y entonces sí ayunarán’”.
Este versículo brilla luz sobre algunos aspectos de la vida que presentan obstáculos diarios. La primera es nuestra necesidad de compararnos con los demás. En el mundo actual, podemos quedar atrapados en comparar nuestras vidas con las de los demás y cambiar quiénes somos para estar a la altura de los demás. Ya sea tratando de comprar la mejor opción o cuestionando nuestros valores cristianos fundamentales debido a lo que está sucediendo en el mundo que nos rodea. Jesús nos ayuda a abordar este obstáculo diciéndonos que si dejamos de compararnos con los demás y nuestras vidas reflejan a él y solo él, estaremos cumpliendo con nuestro deber como discípulos del Señor.
El segundo obstáculo que Jesús nos ayuda a abordar es que habrá momentos en que tus opiniones y puntos de vista puedan entrar en conflicto con alguien a quien respetas mucho y eso no significa que tengas que cambiar tu relación con esa persona. Jesús tenía el mayor respeto por Juan el Bautista. Jesús fue bautizado por Juan y lo siguió por un tiempo hasta que fue encarcelado. Durante el encarcelamiento de Juan, Jesús hizo saber que aunque amaba y respetaba a Juan, la razón por la que Dios lo envió aquí fue para un propósito más grande. Entonces Jesús decidió iniciar su propio ministerio para cumplir ese propósito. Podemos usar la relación entre Juan el Bautista y Jesús como ejemplo de cuando nos cuesta tener conversaciones conflictivas con un ser querido. Sólo recuerda el respeto y la comprensión que ellos tenían el uno con el otro y trata de hacer lo mismo.
Que podamos usar estas palabras de Mateo para convertirnos en discípulos modernos que difundan la palabra de Dios a través del amor y el respeto mutuos.
Heather Orlowski and her husband are busy parents of two little girls (ages 2 and 4). The Catholic Church holds a special place in her heart and in her entire life. She attended Catholic schools from Kindergarten through college. She graduated from Aquinas College with a degree in Elementary/Special Education. Catholic Education is very important to her and she now teaches 1st and 2nd grades at St. Therese Catholic School. In her free time, she loves creating memories with her family and watching her little girls play soccer.
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